Throwaway account.
Here is how this morning went.
630am I awake. He's been awake for 30 minutes
I go downstairs to make coffee. He's standing in the kitchen on his telephone. Says nothing to me.
When coffee is done, I make my coffee and sit in the kitchen to drink it.
He leaves the house for work. Again, saying nothing.
He doesn't like me. And I don't like him. We won't get a divorce any time soon (kids and finances). It just sucks to live in a house with someone who doesn't care about me.
I just wanted to complain this morning. I don't need advice, just an ear.
He's can be such an unfeeling tool.
And.
AND.
Anytime I try to talk to him about the lack of communication, he always says "What? Am I not communicating the right way?"
A little dig into the perpetual ick that is me being a perfectionist and expecting everyone to behave like I do (i.e. acknowledging your spouse with pleasantries when you greet them in the morning.
No, asshole, you are not even close to communicating the right way.